Posted by: Tracy | March 2, 2011

Getting to Know Your Spouse

Last night my husband and I had a down time before we went to bed and I decided I wanted to talk to my husband.  I didn’t want to talk about the day, the kids, work or anything else but just to get to know him.   I know my husband but I just wanted to have a simple conversation that had nothing to do with things we usually talk about.  Every once in a while I like to do this with my husband just ask questions about what he likes, would like to do and other things.  It’s a good way to stay in touch with what he likes and just keeping us in tune with each other. Even though the conversation last only about 15 minutes but it was a good meaningful time with him.

So I encourage anybody just take some time and get to know your spouse.  Ask them what they like, dreams and other things.  You will be surprised how much you actually know your spouse or find out something new about your spouse.  It also good on your relationship to do this every once in awhile.

If you have any troubles thinking of some questions I will give some examples.

  • What’s your favorite movie?
  • What’s your favorite song?
  • Who is your favorite author?
  • What is your favorite book?
  • Who is your favorite musician?
  • If you could write a book what would it be about?
  • What’s one thing you could change?
  • What drew you to me?
  • Where would like to sail to?
  • If you could fly your own plane where would you fly to?

There is some good questions but I encourage you to come up with your own that fits your relationship.  Make sure it has nothing to with money, kids, job or anything that could bring a fight on.  Do this every once in a while just to stay in touch with your spouses’ inner being.

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